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Feb 28, 2009

Women in Islam, Respect given by Allah


This work is under process(it is a translation to a urdu speech), all the Quran verses and hadiths will be placed with reference and the urdu words will be replaced with english inshaAllah, please remember in duas

Oh! My daughters please read the Quran; I wish you read it,
Please listen to Quran of Allah, the respect Allah has given to you.
I wish you understand,
What has Europe given to you, what west has given to you, they have given you shamelessness, they have made you sell your bodies, they have hung you in the markets, they have dipped you in alcohol. Its Islam, which has made you sit on the sky. But there should be someone who could read it. But when you keep the spectacles of kufr (i.e you see as the things as non-believers), then how you will understand Quran.
Not only this, listen ahead my friends, listen to Allah’s Quran, the respect it has given
Allah says: those who find fault (tohmath, aib) with the pure wives, innocent wives, believing wives, those who say they have done zina, for such people there is La,nath of Allah In this world and in the here after and they have a heavy punishment

Imagine the position the women has near Allah, Allah says the pure women and the innocent women, who doesn’t know any chalaki of this world, and the women who believe Allah and his prophet, if some one charges such women then Allah says, there is wrath of Allah on them in this world and the hereafter and they have a heavy punishment.

With this Allah has opened two rulings in the Quran

if some person charges a women with zina, may Allah forbid. Saying she drinks alcohol or something, its not that, but saying she has indulged in zina, because in islam, the biggest important thing is the respect of women. That is why the disbelievers have removed the importance of women. For them women are just like a cup of tea, now one drinks from that cup after sometime some other drinks, then again wash and keep it, what valve do they give to women. Near them its just that there should be no quarrel, both should be always raazi. That people who say zina is a business, what should we explain to them about the status of women. Even now if you go to the European countries and those dirty places and markets, some women there feel its business, infact there will be advertisements and telephone numbers of women and addresses. And in that adds they write In such a way about women that a man from period of jahilaya also cannot read it. This is the respect of women (the non-believers give). What do such people know of women ?. they say we have given respect to women,

so, the two rulings are

1. if some person charges a pure women and believing women of fornication. Then what should he do, he should either bring witness, he should prove that the charge he has made is true. It not that you say what ever you like. But my brother in such community where zina is not zina, in the community where sin is not a sin, it is a business. Once I was going with a friend in his vehicle, I always make fun with him, when I sat inside, he locked the doors. I said with fun to him,do you think I will run away from your car, why are you locking the door. He said maulana if I don’t lock the door, then at traffic signals, women will come and sit inside, then they will tell you to give money, otherwise they will shout and charge you with false accustations. Now where the situation is like this, how they will know what is a women. Where for playing juwa there is women, to make drink there is a women. Then what will happen to them.
Its with the eye of justice if you see islam then you will understand,
If a person charges a pure women with fornication and cant produce a witness, then the punishment in islam is, this punishment is not given by a normal jury but the Quran of Allah.
Allah says, who charge pure women with fornication and after charging they cant produce four witness

You would not have looked over this thing, but please concentrate, on the biggest of the biggest issues, even if the issue is of billions, we have only two witnesses

Verse for 2 witness

But when the issue of womens image has come, Allah says two witness are not sufficient, we need four witness, the women is so expensive that even the billions of rupees cant compete with her. Money may come back after sometime, but when the respect of women is taken away, how can it be returned, who can return it
Then Allah says, if he cant bring four witness, then beat him 80 lashes. Because he has made a false accusation without proof.
Even after beating the punishment is not over, Allah says until he is alive, we shouldn’t consider his witness, he is the worst man and his witness shouldn’t be taken in future.
If he repents then Allah will forgive him

2. now if someone charges his own wife, see it is not a game to say anything about a women, even though she is your wife


if he charges his wife and couldn’t bring four witness, then he should stand infront of people and say for four times “ If I have told false then may Allah send his wrath on me” and fifth time he should say “I get the la’nath of Allah “

This is the respect of women, this is the importance of women, this is the position of women, that no body can open their mouth over women. No body can charge her without any reason, even though she is the wife, no body can talk what ever he likes about her. If Allah gives strength please read the sur-e-nur as many times as you can and see the respect Allah has given to women in Islam.

If Allah gives us understanding and in our heart we have the importance of Allah’s Quran, I mean if we understand the position of Quran and the sayings of Allah.
Quran is the complete and wonderful book Allah has sent to us. That is why I say if someones name comes on the kings tongue then there will be some importance of the person of whom the king is talking.

Allah has spoken specially of women in this Quran, In which there are facts about the Prophets, in which Allah has given his orders and his likings, with this Quran Allah has raised the humans from their dirty lives upto the skies
In such a book, if Allah has spoken of women. What can be the big reference than this that the women have the great position near Allah

I wish the women could understand, see one child always wants to go and play outside, he also wants to do swimming, and go and ride the bike on the river side, it doesn’t mean that if they are not allowed by their parents, then the child is not independent. A small boy is there and what ever he gets in his hand he catches it and suppose there is a knife in his hand, then how the parents run towards him, to take off that knife, now are they taking away his human rights, do we say if he is taking the knife then let him beat with it where ever he likes. If our commonsense is locked, if we keep the name of behayayi as freedom and if we keep the name of selling of bodies of women as right of human, then we cant even do the matam of this


  1. Jazak Allah for your work on this Brother.

  2. Assalamua'laikum


    " qirath ka naam junu rakhdiya aur junu ka naam qirath " (need to be translated)

    say what ever you like

    then we dont have any solution to this thinking, nor there is any need to answer such people

    otherwise you please imagine by this, Prophet (sas) is sitting in the house of aisha (rz) and a woman came there, her name was khoula (rz). she was so sad and confused, she came to Prophet(saw) as started to cry and she complained, oh! Prophet (saw) my husband has tortured me and he said to me that " Your like a mother to me ". You see here, even in the days of ignorance (i.e before Prophethood of Mohammed (sas)), because there were no Prophets after Isa ayahis salam (Jesus) and so the people slowly left the religion after that and started to do ignorant things. so even in this period there was a custom, that if some person says to his wife that " You are like mother to me " or " You are like a sister to me " or " like my daughter ", then that women would be haram on her husband for ever and there was no solution for her to become halal to her husband.
    to them in the days of ignorance, if some person says the above sentences to a wife, then she would become haram to him for ever, from this we can imagine that even in the days of ignorance there was some tasawwur(may be importance) of halal and haram and today even among the literate people there is no importance of halal and haram, they will say what ever they like, today even those who are considered most respectable, literate and cultured civilisation, they stay together for 20 years and we ask them is he your husband, they will say, no no he is my boyfriend. they are together for more than 20 years and till now he is a boyfriend to her, now what can we do with such khaum(group of people) and they keep objection on islam. its like our elders say " The theif has done the theft and again he is shouting that some one has done the theft, some one has done the theft and he is also making the innocent person to be caught ". they are such an intelligent thiefs.

    they bring down the countries and bombard the countires and kill complete race that is no torture, because its according to their intentions. and if some person by mistake kills a dog or a cat, then the complete world is shaken, so for this biased commensense of them, there is no solution

    but in the days of ignorance they are not having any Prophet nor a book, they have some rules, they had some importance of mother, that she has nurtured us, she has kept us in her stomac, she has beared pains for us, that mother who has given me milk, so they have such an importance of mother, if some one said to his wife " You are like a mother to me" than the wife used to be haram to him for ever.

    Now that women came and started to cry and she said to Prophet (sas), my husband is weird, he has taken away my teenage, i was a rich woman, he has even taken my money, and he has taken my stomach, i have four,five children. they are like silver, i have delivered babies for him, i have given my life, my beauty, my teenage, my money, now i have become old and he said, i am like his mother. oh! Prophet (sas) now i am old, so who will marry with me, where should i go and where should i stay, now i dont even have money and again she should be away from her children, as he is husband, he is father, he would say i will not give my children, Oh Prophet (sas) i am dead now, i have lost everything.

    she said Oh! Prophet (sas) have mercy on me and give solution to me. Prophet (sas) said i understand your sadness, but Allah hasnt ordered any command about the your case. now that women was in sadness and hurted, now when some one is hurted and sad then they will not think with whom they are talking and she said, " Oh! PROPHET (SAS), THERE IS A SOLUTION IN THE QURAN TO ALL PROBLEMS IN THE WORLD AND THERE IS NOT ANY SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEM ". Then Prophet (sas) said, see Allah hasnt ordered anything about you and the Prophets doesnt say anything by themselves.

    after discussing so much about this issue, then she stood up and said, Prophet (sas) you also havent heard my case, then Prophet (sas) said, see i am listening to your case, but without Allahs command how can i give judgement. because prophets doesnt do judgement by their own. then she stood up in anger and said, ok then if you dont do judgement, then i will go and tell this myself to my Allah.

    she came out of the home and then Allah revealed the Quran, i.e why mother Aisha (az) says, surely Allah is pure, i am present in the home, i have heard some of the discussion and couldnt hear some, but my Allah, you have heard everything that woman was telling, and surely nothing can be hidden infront of you.

    Allah has revealed the Quran

    58.1. Allah has indeed heard the words of the woman who pleaded with you against
    her husband and made her complaint to Allah, and Allah has heard what you said
    to each other. Allah hears all and sees all.
    58.2.Those of you who divorce their wives by Zihar (calling them to be like their mothers) should know that they are not their mothers. Their mothers are only those who gave birth to them. Surely the words they utter are absurd and false. Allah could punish them for this but He forgave them(as it was unintentional), surely Allah is All-Pardoning, All-Forgiving.
    58.3. Those who divorce their wives by Zihar, then wish to retract the words they uttered, shall have to free a slave before they touch each other. This is enjoined as a penalty for doing so(though it was unintentional). Allah is well-aware of all your actions.
    58.4.He that has no slave, shall fast two consecutive months before they touch each
    other. He that cannot fast, shall feed sixty poor people. This is enjoined so that you
    may have faith in Allah and His Rasool. These are the limits set by Allah, and the
    violators shall have a painful punishment.
    58.5. Those who resist Allah and His Rasool, shall be humiliated as were those before them. We have sent down clear revelations; the disbelievers shall have a humiliating punishment.

    explanation of this verses to be continued....

  3. Assalamua'laikum


    Commentary: Allah says my dear Prophet (sas), I have heard the plea of that women who was pleading to you about her husband, and Allah is the only one who can hear it and only Allah can see it, and who else can hear or see it.

    And Allah has ordered to Prophet (sas) that after today, if some one tells such words to their wives, then she will not become haram on him, he is telling lies, how can she become his mother. Mother is the one who has given birth to him, just by saying you’re my mother how can a wife become his mother, this is a false practice, otherwise a person to how many women he says maaji, ammaji (a common word used in india to call elder women, it actually means mother), how many times he says to women sister, he also calls some daughter, just by saying does they all become their mothers and daughters ?

    That wife will not become mother, but why did he say like that, why he has broken the heart of his wife, why he has made something halal to him haram, mother is haram for ever to son, daughter is forever haram and sister is forever haram,
    [Verse about mothers and daughters being haram]
    But he has said a false statement, because he has done a torture to his wife, with out reason he called her as a mother, now see the position of a women, a person has said something just in anger and in emotion, because willingly nobody calls his wife a mother or something, so he might have said it in anger. But for saying that Allah says there is a punishment for this, if he says mother and he leaves for ever its okay then and let her go (as per rules of talaq), but if the person wants to retract with his wife, because he said it only in anger, then Allah says the matter is not so easy, because why did he insult a woman, so the punishment is a slave should be freed, how much does a slave cost, what do you think, that we need to buy a camel that it will come in 5000 or 8000, it means a woman whom Allah has made halal to you by marriage and you made her haram just by saying that you’re my mother, for this the punishment is freeing of a slave, but now there are no slaves now, if he cant buy the slave then he should fast for 2 months, if he fasts then he will learn to control himself, if he fasts then he will control his nafs, then he will do good deeds and stop from bad thoughts, if he stays for 2 months away from wife then he will know the position of a women.
    Ok, if now he cant even fast for two months, because he may be old or he may be ill, there are so many people who cant even fast in ramadhan, even though they want to fast. Then such people should feed 60 poor people, unless he fulfills one of the above punishments, till then he shouldn’t even touch his wife. Why has he insulted the women by saying such words, she has spent all her life with him, she is his wifem she is mother of his sons, and she is his parter is sadness and happiness, and when he gets angry he is making her haram on him, is it a game that whenever you like make her halal and when ever you like you make her haram. Have they thought that women is a doll, that you play as you like with her, have they thought that the women is a shoe in a leg, that whenever u like you wear her and when ever you like throw her, no, but the women has a highest position.

    When the quran was revealed, Prophet (sas) asked to call khoula (rz) that Allah has revealed quran about her, and they have called khoula (rz) and her husband. Then Prophet (sas) read the quran and said to her husband that you have to free a slave, he said I don’t have any slave, I am myself present, Prophet (sas) said if u cant free a slave, then fast for two months, then he said, I will die if I don’t eat food, I am a weak and ill person. Then Prophet (sas) asked him to feed 60 people, he said I cant even feed 60 people, I don’t have food in my own house from where do I get food for 60 people. His wife said that even I will also help him in feeding people, Prophet said, ok u do some help and I will also do some help, so that we fulfill the punishment he is obliged to.

    So Allah has revealed this verses in the Sur-e-Mujadila, the reason was a women was hurt by her husband and till the day of judgment it has become a rule that if any muslim in anger says mother or sister to his wife, then it means she will not be haram to her husband as it was before.

    Alhamdulilla, i have completed the maximum portion of it, now i need to fix it inshaAllah :)

  4. Assalmua'laikum

    oops i was so busy this sunday that i actually forgot it was sunday, inshaAllah i will update it in next sunday :)


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